Lynda is a Clairvoyant,
Psychic Medium
If you have a problem of a spiritual or personal nature, or with any other aspect of your life, please contact Lynda on the email below. Lynda will seek the help of her spirit guides to endeavour to offer you advice and guidance.
Q. I wondered if you can advise me on how I can help my elderly neighbour, she has recently lost her cat as it was run over. My husband has suggested we get her a kitten as she is very upset and her cat meant the world to her.
Name & address supplied
A. She is a lucky lady to have a caring neighbour like you. I would not rush into buying her a new kitten as this would not be a good idea at the moment. Your neighbour needs time to grieve and get over her loss of her pet. Also if the lady is elderly she may not want the responsibility of a new cat. I would suggest you befriend her by inviting her over for coffee and allow her to talk. If you wanted to buy her a present, why not buy a photo frame where she can place a picture of her cat. Is there a local whist drive or coffee club where she can mix and chat to people? Though remember she may want time alone, in which case you will have to respect her privacy. You will have a gut feeling as to what to do, go with your instinct and with what your heart is telling you.
Q. My rescue dog is very nervous and cowers when someone goes to stroke her. I am worried she is not getting any better even though I take her for walks and try to encourage her to let people stroke her. Is there anything you can suggest? Margaret - Birmingham
A. With animals that are nervous you have to be patient and give them time to trust people. I would suggest you do not force her to do anything as this is confirming to her that she cannot trust people, let her make the decisions. Why not encourage people to ignore her and let your dog make the first move to come and sniff them. Dogs can feel threatened if you give them eye contact and stick out your hand. Be calm, consistent and patient when handling her; do not make loud noises or sudden movements. There are many animal behaviourists and your vet maybe able to advice you on who to contact. I have found Reiki healing helps animals who suffer from anxiety to relax. I have done Reiki on many animals and also have sent distant healing to animals, even a horse in America, all of them have responded very well. It is a requirement by law that the animal's Veterinary surgeon gives permission for any complimentary therapy.
Q. This may seem a strange question but could my grandmother be one of my spirit guides. I keep feeling her around me. We were very close and I miss her so much. Gill - Solihull
A. Yes it is possibly your grandmother has asked to work with your guides to help you. She will also want to be around you to show you how much she still loves you and cares. It sounds like she has volunteered to stay on the earth plain to watch over you. She will not necessarily be earth bound and stranded here. Why not use a pendulum to talk to your nan and ask her? Your other spirit guides are usually people who have volunteered to help you and they are chosen because of their expertise in a particular skill. If you were an accountant or shop keeper you may have a spirit guide whose skill is doing book keeping. A nurse, doctor, dentist and Veterinary surgeon will have guides who were healers. Our guides help us with everyday tasks and not just the serious spiritual things such as clairvoyance and healing. We need guides who can help us drive the car and use our intuition for example: how far to drive away from the kerb and when to do an emergency stop. We have guides who watch over us when we sleep, these guides may even do healing on us, even if the person was not spiritual and did not ask for it. Some people have as many as 800 spirit guides helping in them. Some are psychic guides, who stay with the person all the time and others are spirit guides who are networking and talking to other peoples guides. When we have a coincidence or we find something we really need it is more than likely our spirit guides have helped.
Q. My husband says he can see flashes of light which looks like glitter in the corner of our living room. I cannot see anything and he says he notices it more when he watches TV. Do you know what it could be? Karen - Coventry
A. It sounds to me as though it may be a spiritual vortex or portal, which is a channel of revolving energy where spirits travel backwards and forwards between heaven and the earth realm. You have not mentioned if the house feels cosy and calm, though if he sees flashes; it is more than likely to be an angelic portal rather than a denser vortex which negative spirits use. If you feel comfortable and the atmosphere at home is relaxed I would not worry and I would take it as a compliment that the angels are visiting your home. If you feel your home is tense and unhappy then you may need to call in a Clairvoyant or Medium who are knowledgeable and know how to close down a vortex. People who tease or are disrespectful of spirits might accidently open a dark negative portal but this is unlikely, so I would not be concerned. If you are at all worried email me and I will gladly help you further.
Q. Is it true that you can manifest things? I am not very confident and quite shy, but I really want to find a boyfriend. Can you suggest anything? Name & address supplied
A. Yes it is true you can manifest most things that you want. Though it may not necessarily be exactly what you want, but something you needed. In my experience with helping my clients, those who are desperate to find a partner have personal issues which need sorting first. A boyfriend is more than likely to come on the scene when you don't need one but you want one. If a person does not love themselves with low self esteem they will attract a person who is stronger and more dominant. In some cases a partnership can be one sided with one person taking and not giving affection, whereas the other will be giving too much. All relationships, where it is friendships, marriages or business partnerships must be equal and balanced. If the relationship is one sided then the relationship will not last. Start with yourself by wearing bright clothes, which uplift you. Find quality time for yourself by having a pamper day, do your nails, book in and have your hair done, reflexology, healing or walking.
Write a journal to let go of any pent up or old emotions. Sometimes a person needs to go backwards to go forwards, especially if they keep making the same mistakes in their life. With writing a journal you are letting go of a lot of emotional hurt and be true to yourself by how you really feel. Make a wish list what do you really want in life, one of these you have already said is a boyfriend. What do you want in a man? What will make you happy? Write on a piece of paper what will truly make you happy and place this on a windowsill or on top of the wardrobe (if you do not want anyone reading it). By putting your wish list in an open space means you want it now and not in the future by placing in a draw or in a cupboard. Always word the wish list as if it is in the here and now, by saying "I now have ...", "I am ....", for example " I am now in a loving relationship". Good luck and get wishing.
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